|What @YesYoureRacist said|
What I said
OMG I'm like the nicest & not racist
Bottom line, Sharideth is claiming women shouldn't shame men for noticing them. And by "shame" them, she seems to mean "a women asks the man he not to do something because it is making her feel uncomfortable." So if saying "maybe don't do something" is shaming, then Kristen's blog just hard core shamed women. Not for staring, but for standing up for themselves.
And for a moment, let's pretend that this objectified, caricature of a woman did maliciously dress suggestively just to get attention and then grind some man's nether bits to dust when she got that attention. Does that really deserve a whole blog post? What about a simple apology/discussion between the dude and the tits. I mean the woman in this blog post. Maybe, he could say something like, "I didn't mean to make you uncomfortable, I was just noticing your glitter." And then maybe you wouldn't have to shame all women who ever feel uncomfortable about the way guys are looking at them because maybe they brought it on themselves for wearing a top that was too low cut??