I've never made you put anything in your mouth that you didn't want to, or touch anyone you didn't want to, or talk to anyone you didn't want to, because I wanted you to understand that you and you alone control your boundaries.
Let's start by respecting our kids' boundaries. Then, lets teach them how to respect other people's boundaries. Particularly, sexual boundaries. And let's teach them how to stand up for themselves and other people. And most of all, lets stop it with the perpetrator enabling and victim blaming. Because seriously. This is beyond messed up and it has to stop.